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The Illusion is most of the Enchantment
Nothing ruins a magic trick more than knowing how it works...and nothing dulls the spark of life faster than dissecting a feeling before...
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The shelf life of gratitude
We call a plate dirty the moment the food is gone...never mind the nourishment it gave, it’s discardable or a stained utensil once...
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The currency of accountability
In today’s society, we’ve confused emotional independence with emotional detachment. Phrases like “I don’t owe anyone anything” have...
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The currency of credibility...
You have two choices in life: raise your behavior to match your values and commitments, or lower your values to justify your actions and...
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No saint or sinner...
I’ll turn into a saint the day God becomes an atheist. Sainthood that demands self-denial is just another costume. I don’t chase halos...
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Policed harmony isn't culture...
When rules have to be enforced just to keep character in check, whether in a person or a group: it’s more than a warning sign of cultural...
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Jog before you claim to fly...credibility is earned slowly
“You can’t step into the same river twice,” said the wise Heraclitus, because the river has changed, and so have you... But in today’s...
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Emotional maturity
Maturity isn’t just measured by how much you agree with others but by how much freedom of expression you can tolerate without letting...
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The currency of credibility
Credibility is the heartbeat of leadership, and competence is its pulse: both need to be felt, not flaunted. It’s what makes people trust...
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The Invisible Power...
Once you understand the weight of your words, you stop speaking just to fill the air. You speak to move, to shape, to awaken or to help....
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Layers of emotion, Threads of expression
Beneath the anger, there' a grievance. Beneath the grievance, there's an expectation. Beneath the expectation, there's hope. Beneath the...
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The sound of silence...
The challenge with weak signals in relationships isn’t their complexity...it’s their subtlety. They rarely arrive with clear consequences...
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The price of permission is the birth of tradition...
What you tolerate quietly today becomes your reality loudly tomorrow. Every adjustment made without a boundary is a silent permission...
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Leave me be...
Some people have tea to spill... I prefer peace to sip. While I’m busy minding my own business, some get busy dragging me into everyone...
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Surrender and resistance in truce...
There came a day I stopped bracing against the tide. I let the pain in, without trying to rename it. I let the becoming happen, without...
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Live like your soul feels it...
Thank like you mean it. Smile like they can feel it. Give like you won’t repeat it. Speak like your truth frees it. Hold like their heart...
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Signed, Sealed and Surveilled...
At this point, it’s hard to tell: Is it a sign from the universe, or just my phone eavesdropping again? One whispers to your soul. The...
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Try the other setting
People and their behavior, pain and memories give you many angles of a frame. Your focus decides the story forward. When someone close...
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The forgotten spark within...
You weren’t sent here just to function, follow, and fade. You were sent to awaken to remember. But early on, the world whispered lies...
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The 3 versions of truth...
Shailosophy: The Three Versions of Truth 1. My version: bent by memory, scarred by emotion, holding to facts. 2. Your version: shaped by...
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